Single Girls Tips For Valentine
Posted on 01. Dec, 2009 by Lounge Lady in Pillow Talk
It is a day of relentless exchange of flowers, chocolates, cards, fragrances, jewelry and other romantic gifts, all packed with warm feelings of love, romance and passion. Depending on how much you appreciate Valentine’s Day, and all that it suggests, being single on a love saturated day can stir up feelings of loneliness and self-doubt, which is a challenge for many to handle. But what is a single girl to do when she is feeling the chilling despair of being without a man instead of embracing the fiery desire of love?
This time of year can be another reminder of your need to mourn your relationship status and you can go curl up and convince yourself that valentine is just an illusion. You can sit at home and think about the time your ex flew you to England and you stayed in some romantic Liverpool hotels. Or you can choose to trash your pain and defy cupid by having fun and thriving as a single on Valentine!
Who says V-day is for couples? Love is for all of us!
Here are easy tips on how to enjoy Valentine’s Day as a single, at least till you meet the right person, who will then share more Valentine’s Day with you happily ever after!
- Appreciate yourself and reward yourself for all you have accomplished. Treat yourself to something special; buy yourself the gift you would have loved to receive from your partner if you were in a relationship. Surround yourself with all the things you love best
- Remember the special people in your life. Make a list of all those who have touched your live positively and you will be really surprised how long the list could be. Send them a mail, a text or postcards to appreciate them.
- You are single but you don’t have to be alone, get together with some of your other unattached friends hit the restaurants, a cinema, and the local karaoke bar, whatever. Revel in your ability to have an amazing time, and if you end the day hooking up with a fellow single guy, all well and good.
- You and a group of your friends, your family or your colleagues can also exchange gifts and make each other feel special. Make a draw of all the names and then deliver gifts to the person whose name you picked. That way everyone can have a feel of Valentine.
- Have a moment of reflection. If you are single and you don’t want to be, take time to think about what could be preventing you from getting the kind of relationship you want and decide on how to move forward to achieve what you want. If you are single and you want to remain single, now is the time to affirm your choice. Do not let other people’s preferences define your choice as something wrong.
okay now! lets go there. lol!
single or engaged, valentine is a day of appreciating yourself and others, dont let it get at you that you dont have a partner yet. have fun.
Val day is meant 4 evrbdy,just 2 show ur love 2 others share gifts,joy and av fun bt evrything must b moderation…enjy ur sef gals…..
wow! great ideas.single or married i deserve to enjoy myself
this is so on point, nothing to be sad about being single!
Great articles, love the last one.
i like the bit about being your own valentine
actually,there’s no reason to feel sad about not having a partner.I know just the gift to get for myself…the sad thing is the money’s coming from my pocket…lol
cool!
Nice Article! cheer, doesn’t matter your relationship status……It’s a day to appreciate all the lovely things you have experienced and acheived since the previous year. Just chill out and have fun.
@ Seghe, i feel u…
Love the second and the last one,a lot of people have affected one’s life positively.
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Good evening, Happy Valentines Day!!
i love this article.my valentine started well, but ended so bad with tears in my eyes. then i discovered that the main thing in love is to love yourself first and dont let people run you down with their words.shit comes from people especially those who claim to love you…
this is so touching and encouraging. i love it and thumps up.